Here is one of my favorite ways to start a flirtatious conversation with a group of women. This is tons of fun, and always gets a good response from the group.
I’ve used this during the day in a park, or in Union Square, and I’ve used it at night when I am out at bars. It is simple to use, and leaves a great opening to continue the conversation.
This works best with women in groups of 2 or 3, which is pretty common to see when you are out and about.
So what is this amazingly simple line to use?
“Hey guys, you know, I’m actually not sure which of you to flirt with first.”
That’s it. You can add to it, “You’re both so cute, I’m not sure which of you to flirt with first.”
You can change it up: “I’m not sure which of you I should hit on first. This is really a dilemma for me.”
This is a fun, flirtatious way to start the conversation.
You can then ask which of them is the best flirt, if one responds really well, tell the others that you are going to flirt with her, you can accuse them of being bad at flirting, and on and on and on.
A fun attitude makes this work. This is not a very serious way to start a conversation, so there is no reason to be too serious about it. A smile and upbeat attitude goes a long way.
Last weekend I approached a two women in a bar and used this opener, and one of them responded that we should play rock, paper, scissor to see who flirts with who. I’ll be stealing that from her.
Try this out, have some fun, and flirt with some women.