(This one is for you, V)
It is important to be ready to flirt with anyone, anytime, anywhere. When I know that I am ready to flirt with a girl at a moments notice, I feel on top of the world. Electrified.
This is a little anecdote from last week. I was talking to one of my coaching clients, and I challenged him to approach a girl everyday with with the simple as syrup, “you’re cute”. I told him I would do it the next day too, so I headed out on my lunch break ready to flirt with some lucky woman.
After walking around, getting lunch, then walking around some more, I was getting disappointing, because I was really just not seeing any really cute women to flirt with.
Then I saw this adorable blonde in the Metreon. She was working at one of those little booths, selling a nail polish device or something. I walk up to her, she says, “Come here, I have something to show you”.
Immediately I replied, “You are way too cute to be selling me this. How about we just flirt together for the next few minutes?”
She giggled, I kept bantering, I vibed for a few minutes, but then she had to get back to work.
This interaction didn’t end up in a number, or a date, but that is OK. Flirting like that gets the blood flowing, gets your endorphins pumped, and makes you feel great.
Go out and flirt! Now!